Last week in my dorm building, there was a pink bulletin board display on one of the boys’ floors that read, “Oh My Gosh! This Bulletin Board is Sooo ‘Queer.'” First I thought: What is this? However, when I spoke to the individual who created the display, he explained that he put that message on the board. You’re probably asking why? The display that Kenny Kuchta, a VCU freshman, had constructed was about the homosexual lifestyle and the gay community. The statement he wrote on the board was intended for humorous relief, and to let others know controversial comments were expected. Space on the bulletin board was provided for others to write their comments.
Kuchta grabbed everyone’s attention by putting that quote on the board. The display was certainly not created to offend anyone, but rather to educate young minds about homosexuality.
So, what exactly was posted on this bulletin board? There were magazine articles about famous gay individuals such as RuPaul Charles and Sal Mineo. A list of famous people who were or are gay or bisexual was posted as well. I glanced at Madonna’s name, which was not really surprising to me, but other names like Eleanor Roosevelt caught my eye twice. I did not think “ewwwww,” but rather “that’s interesting,” because I had no idea she was bisexual. Another type of list consisted of the different gay symbols. There also was a comic strip titled “Nobody Believes I’m Gay.” Other magazine articles posted on the board were about gays coming out, or discriminating experiences people have had because of their sexual preference.
Last semester there was an incident on campus where a young male and young female were assaulted by a group of people because of their sexual preference. Not many VCU students even knew about this situation. However, I feel that it is essential to inform the public, especially among young persons, that discriminating and hurtful actions are immoral and ignorant. We, as college students, are an example of maturity and growth. Common respect is significant and demanding. I am not saying we have to agree with an individual’s difference, but to be kind and considerate should be expected from all. I am proud Kuchta placed an impacting issue on the bulletin board, because it teaches others that respect is important and applies to everyone regardless of their preferences. Kuchta wanted to show others what homosexuals have to face in their lives, and he hoped that people would learn from this and have an open attitude.
I wondered what others living on that floor thought about the bulletin board. One male said he did not agree with the idea of being gay, however, he did not think the display was offending anyone.
Kuchta stated that people have been positive about the display. Also posted on the board was a list of signs of suppressed homosexuality and helpful worksheets that listed contacts for youth groups, resources, talk lines and organizations. These will provide helpful tips and counseling to anyone who has concerns about being gay or questions regarding the gay community.
Being homosexual in this society can be complicated, but it is the arrogant minds that create a harmful environment. I believe everyone should be treated equally and with respect and dignity. Hopefully more individuals will share this opinion.